"studying"

I'm here at the library because I had to finish my essay on the comparisons between hindu women and buddhist women. YEs, the very same one i had to hand it in on november, but anyways...

One thing I've read today, just flipping through books, news papers and etc, is that we should keep our goals very short. It's easier to reach a few goals thant try to do so many at once, so I just decided to keep it short for 09. I will only focus on studying well to get my greatest grades ever, on eating properly, and exercising very, very intensively.

i have other stuff that I should improve on and those are: on communication with my parents, communicating with my cousin and grandma, and with my friends,

I have to also improve on saying the words thank you and please more frequently. It is the biggest sins of our time, we don't say them enough.

Also, i see a need for me to socialize more, and for this reason I will be more sociable this year. I will meet a quota of 10 new people each month for the rest of the year.

(how do I do that? should I go after people or connect people? as I once heard, "make the opportunity happen, dont just wait for it to come along" - perhaps I should really make it happen - I think that is the reason I am unwilling to change churches. Changing churches doesnt change myself, but changing myself may very well change the church =)